Amanda Blake

Concerned about how divorce might impact your child? Try co-parenting

Divorce can lead children to feel imbalanced and uncomfortable at home, the place where they should feel safest. That’s why intentional cooperative co-parenting, though difficult and awkward, is necessary to maintain effective childrearing after divorce.  In the accompanying video, I use information discussed in a 2021 academic article titled “Coparenting and child behavior in the …

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How to support your child through your divorce depending on their age

What are the most important actions parents going through a divorce should take to help their children? It’s a simple question, one millions of individuals likely contemplate each day. In the accompanying timeline and later paragraphs, I have summarized research conducted and studied by Canada’s Department of Justice and a video featuring Texas divorce lawyer …

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A memo to dads: Child support means more than supporting your child financially

By Amanda Blake My dad missed one day. He was sick, so I thought nothing of it. But he mentioned it a lot: I’ve missed one day in eight years … eight years. I get it, Dad.  My parents had joint custody of me and my sister. We lived primarily with our mom and spent …

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Standing on ice: The chilling truths about broken homes and their impact on children

By Amanda Blake For years, my sister and I stood on a narrowly frozen lake, parents on opposite shores. We were aware of the risk of stepping in either direction — a shattering plunge that would make no one happy — so we froze to maintain the ice beneath us. I’ll admit that sounds dramatic, …

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Amid the storm of divorce: Let’s dive into the child’s perspective

By Amanda Blake “Lord, please, save my boat,” Edson prayed aloud, lifting his hands into the frosty air. “Save Your boat!” That desperate plea is part of a creative story I wrote for a religion class during my first year at Southern Adventist University. Now, three years later, I am working on a project with …

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